Napp Follow 27 followers 22 badges Send a private message to Napp. Follow 14 He's a cradle snatching pervert. Follow 15 Follow 16 I think its ok too if 2 people get on well. This happened to my aunt she's 36 and dated a 19 year old for a short time and was called by family and basically most people around her. Terminator01 Follow 2 followers 11 badges Send a private message to Terminator Follow 17 It can happen and DOES happen. Follow 18 I don't think it's good. You're still a child.
I hope if this is real then it's only a possible relationship and not actually developed yet and nothing sexual happens. Dhanny Follow 16 followers 17 badges Send a private message to Dhanny. Follow 19 I think its just crazily out of proportion. Think about how mentally and physically apart the two ages are. Posted on the TSR App. Follow 20 Original post by Froppy How do you know the older one isn't female huh? I think i'm a bit weird because in my head if the 35 year old is a guy and he is dating the 16 year old girl This forum is supported by: Leave or Remain - what would you vote right now?
Is it a quilt or a duvet? Re-applying to Cambridge after rejection. Teacher didn't give me exam materials?! No one should pressure you or force you to have sex or do anything sexual. A good relationship should be based on trust and communication.
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You are now in the waiting room. And ask him if there is anyone in his cohort he fancies? It is a big age gap. I know my 16 yr old was roasting one of his buddies for dating a girl in the 8th grade.
Can a 13 year old date a 16 year old?
Even at that age they know that 'they are only dating a younger girl because they couldn't get someone in their grade to date them'. Or maybe it was true love.. Who am I to judge? There was some judgement.
I would be uncomfortable if my child were the 13 year old. I think that a call between parents is in order I wouldn't want to out the other kid on the specific relationship Internet privacy as well depending on how they communicate The fact that they're not in the same school is a little worrisome Is she in middle school?? Even most of those states listed as no "close in age" exemption statute have one by judicial decisions. The prisons don't have room for all the teens who violate this law.
Original poster, I know of parents of younger daughters that handled this by letting them have supervised time together with each other's family until the romance died of natural causes as most teen romances do. Even if they're not having sex. It's gross to me to think of a 16 yr old fingering a 13 year old girl Some states Do NOT consider these activities to be covered by the age of consent statutes. Google up "Wilson v state" for the story of Genarlow Wilson of Georgia who was jailed for oral sex when protected from prosecution by the "close in age exemption for vaginal sex with a 15 year old girl.
I know this sounds very old fashioned and narrow minded, but I would consider these activities to be "having sex" and the laws of many states do also. I had a 17 year old boyfriend when I was It stayed pretty innocent, hand holding and kissing I would just keep an eye out and make sure your son knows what you expect of him Her being at another school probably will make a difference in how much they see each other too.
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My parents didn't love that age difference, but they didn't push me to end it, just set a lot of rules for us. I think that's illegal? That's probably the best way to broach it - "Sweetie, I'm happy you've found someone that makes you happy, but the police kinda disagree". Still opens her son up to potential legal issues, even without proof. Or ya know, they may just eventually have sex and that would be considered rape.
It's not illegal to DATE someone who's OP, do you know what the age of consent is in your state? Find out I guarantee it's above 13 and make sure your son knows how serious underage sex is these days. He could be branded as a sex offender for life, literally. About a third of the American population fall into each of the three ages of concent ages of 16, 17, or Most states have "close in age exemptions" that protect the older teen from felony prodecution--tipically within two or three years of each other.
OP can Google up or Bing up "age of consent by states" and see what the rules are in their state.
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Having said this, I too think 13 and 16 is a wide gap. They may be right for each other in a few years. I will also note that teen girls mature a year or two ahead of boys, but even with that maturity are not ready for sex. Most states have "close in age exemptions" that protect the older teen from felony prodecution. But some states don't. Such as California, whose population includes 1 in every 9 people in America.
Here's a link on CA's lack of a "Romeo and Juliet law" that's what these close-in-age exceptions are called: OP should also clearly explain to her son that when a person is under the age of consent, it doesn't matter at all that she consented.
Even if you have a handwritten letter from her enthusiastically saying yes to sex, you are still going to be branded a sex criminal if her parents call the cops--which they can do at any time. I personally think these laws are a little bit MUCH, for fux sake, but those are the laws and you definitely don't want your son to get in that much trouble. Some states also include oral sex and heavy petting as part of the protection of the age of concent laws.
The age of consent in my state is 17, I doubt it's under 15 anywhere. Some foreign countries have a lower age, but in the USA it's either 16, 17, or 18 with most states, either by statute of judicial decision, having the "close in age exemptions," also known as "Romeo and Juliet laws. I started high school when I was Most of the guys I dated were juniors and seniors. So all years older than me. I would probably just talk to him about safety and things like that.
But as long as her parents are ok with it, I would let it go. Add extremely late puberty and likely autism and I can understand why my adoptive mother was scared of me dating. I physically was very much a child until my senior year and even then I looked about years younger than my calendar age.
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