5 signs you are dating a psychopath

Even if they have a primary partner, they are always out on the prowl — at the bar, in the workplace, on numerous dating sites — wherever they can get supply. As natural braggarts, psychopaths tend to oversell themselves and their abilities.

5 Signs That You’re Dating a Psychopath

They take pride in whatever qualities make them special and they believe themselves to be the exception to every rule. For example, a highly physically attractive malignant narcissist may feel that his good looks entitle him to sex with multiple women outside of his marriage or favoritism in the workplace. Psychopaths are known for leading parasitic lifestyles that grant them access to financial resources without having to work for them. This goes beyond just normal self-absorption; it lies on the cusp of pathological self-involvement.

They may show little to no emotional response or curiosity about your welfare, your dreams or your basic needs. If you have encountered someone who seems to display any of these traits as a long-standing pattern of behavior, be wary and do whatever you can to detach from them emotionally, financially and interpersonally.

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2. Emotional detachment

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Their aim is to get you to sympathize and feel sorry for them. The reason they do this is to manipulate you in not leaving them despite their treatment and behavior towards you. This is a trap that most people fall into, however your own mental and physical health should be taking number one priority at all times. You shouldn't try and help someone who is only tearing you down. When your partner does something nice for you, they feel entitled to praise or a reward, like a little child or puppy. They are not doing something nice out of the kindness of their heart, but rather to get something from you.

Furthermore, if you do not reward or praise them they feel it's their entitlement to hurt you. If they have been hurt or dismissed in any way they feel it's their right to retaliate. Do not feel that you need to follow them around praising them all the time. That is not normal for a relationship. It is a sign that they are trying to control how you feel about them at all times.

They should want to do sweet things because they love you, not because they think they will gain something out of it.

They love to be the center of attention all of the time. They're attractive, funny, have a relaxed attitude, they can be charming, charismatic, and tend to make people feel special about themselves.

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Your friends and family are likely to find them to be a great match for you, and will also fall into the trap easily. Once you really get to know a psychopath, though, you will realize that this is all an act of arrogance. They think and act like they're the bees knees, the coolest, smartest person alive, and try to make everyone aware of it. They will rub their successes in the faces of others, and put others down.

They will tell you how amazing they are and tell you how "lucky you are to be with them. If they are always thinking they are better than everyone else, it might be a sign they are a psychopath. Do you feel like you partner is spying on you? Do they get mad if you don't answer a call from them or if you come home later than planned? Do they get jealous if they see you talking to someone of the opposite sex? And then accuse you of cheating? They constantly keep tabs on you, and will want to do things like go through your text message or social media even though you have never given them a reason to doubt your loyalty.

Despite all this, your partner is allowed to do whatever they want, when they want to do it. If you feel like you aren't allowed to question them, they have control over you. They are manipulating the relationship to be in their favor, and are practicing toxic habits. When your partner tells you a story, some of the things they talk about never seem to add up. You don't feel like they are being totally honest with you or telling you the whole story. If you say something they become angry with you, and accuse you of not trusting them.

If you catch them in a lie, they'll just spit out another one to cover the last lie up.

1. Superficial charm

They will never apologize, and instead turn it on you. You begin to do everything they say but they still find fault with you. You start to believe their lies and when, in their eyes, you do something wrong they punish you. If they cheat on you, they make you believe it's your fault for being "inadequate". A normal person treats people and animals with kindness and respect, regardless if they are a big fan of animals or not. Has your partner hurt your cat or dog?

Maybe they've kicked at your pet or threatened an animal?

12 Signs You're Dating a Psychopath (and What to Do About It)

Do they show an overall dislike for animals in general? If so, it can be a red sign that they have some dark and disturbing thoughts. This is not normal behavior and is indicative of a mental issue. They might be having violent thoughts that they will one day act upon, regardless of who it may hurt. Protect your animals if you are afraid your significant other could do further damage. If your significant other is showing these signs it is a huge red flag. They might be trying to control and manipulate you, without you even realizing it. This is unhealthy and not a good environment for you to stay in.

You will want to find a way to remain safe and secure while you leave the relationship, so turn to friends and family for help. You deserve someone who loves you and treats you with respect. Failed GOP presidential nominee and newly minted Utah Hyde It seems like your partner is two completely different people; they can change in a split second for no reason. They Frequently Lie A psychopath will lie about almost everything they do, regardless if they actually have a reason to do so.

You Feel Isolated and Alone You feel like you are walking on eggshells; the smallest things will make your partner lose their temper. They Feel No Guilt or Remorse If your partner is a psychopath, they may hurt you either physically and verbally. They Have a Sense of Entitlement When your partner does something nice for you, they feel entitled to praise or a reward, like a little child or puppy. They're Always the Life of the Party They love to be the center of attention all of the time.

Things Don't Always Seem to Add Up When your partner tells you a story, some of the things they talk about never seem to add up.

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