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They asked us if we wanted to go out with them. Every single night during our stay they asked us the same question, we refused every time again, until the last night of our stay. We visit a bar with them, that is next to the hotel. As soon as we arrived there, only one of the 2 animators was there. He was very courteous and used all his charme to seduce me. Before we went back home he asked for my address and telephonenumber. He accompanied us to the airport.
Two days later he called me and told me that he missed me so much, he was sick because of it. He asked me to return as quick as possible.
After a few months, I returned to Hurgada. At that point in time I just broke up with my boy friend and lived alone. I stayed in the same hotel as before and he was there as well. He did spent all his free time with me. I fell in love, it was a beautiful holiday and he made me feel like a real woman. He wanted to introduce me to his family. This gave me the impression that he was honest and really loved me.
We agreed, that when I would come the next time, we would go visit his parents in Luxor. In between my holidays in Egypt we wrote and called eachother a lot. Later on we could get married in the official way, I agreed. Two years later, I did visit him 12 times by then and he did spent 1 month in the Netherlands, we got officialy married in Luxor. Six months later he came to Holland. I paid for everything, because he had nothing.
We planned to stay in Holland for several years to earn some money and then move to Egypt. He was studieing, I worked. After he had lived here for more than six months, he thought that renting a house, was a waste of money and he suggested we should buy a house. All this with the money I had from an inheritance and a small loan.
Later on we could then sell the house and with that money buy something in Egypt. I agreed, and as we were officialy married, the house would be his property as well as mine. After he finished his studies, he worked for a few years at different places, but it never lasted long.
In that period he spent more time at home, than at work. He prefered to be his own boss, so we started our own business. That means it was his business, a small barbershop for men. As we were married, I had to sign together with him on all the paperwork; rent of the building, loans, etc. If things would go wrong I would bear the burden, but I trusted and supported him. From that moment onwards he changed completely, he became a real horror. At first he had a staff working for him. After work he was going out with the staff. Late in the night he came home, then I was the one that had to fax the orders to the suppliers.
I had to get up early every day to go to work, but he expected me to stay awake until he came home. If I was already in bed, then he waked me up and cursed at me. He claimed that I stayed up, until he was home. I was not a welcome guest in his barbershop, he felt as if I was checking on him. Nevertheless he expected me to do the book keeping, the billing, the rent and the loans. The shop was not really profitable, the staff was in charge and it turned out to be too expensive.
Apart from that part of the revenue disappeard in the pockets of the staff. As we were married for several years, he requested to have the Dutch nationality, which of course he received. In order to lower the costs, he wanted me to work in the shop. Apart from that the housework, the upbringing and care of our children was my task.
Everything that went wrong in the shop, became my fault, he treated me like a slave. I had to do all the work keep the shop clean, book keeping, ordering, shopping, etc. He worked 6 hours a day, I worked 12 to 16 hours. When I finally came home at 3 in the morning, tired, all hell broke loose.
He humiliated me in front of customers and friends. He yelled, threw everything he could find towards my head and brought up his best Arab terms of abuse. Every day the same scenario and the customers could enjoy the spectacle. From the moment I started working in the shop, he claimed a percentage of the daily revenue. If I did not pay him that, he would no longer work in the shop. I should then hire a hairdresser, which would be more expensive. He would go search for another job.
All costs for the shop and the household of our family were payed by me, because I received the whole budget of the shop after reducing his percentage. So that had to be sufficient for the expenses on the shop and livelihood. If it was not sufficient, then that was bad luck for me.
The money he claimed, he spent on buying property in Egypt, which was all purchased in his name and his travelling to Egypt. Money was also sent on regulary bases to his family in Egypt. He bought an appartment in Egypt and had to pay that off on monthly bases. If his payement was not on time, he would lose everything he said. If his money for the monthly payement was insuffient, he forced me to pay the rest.
Because of this he had less money and was afraid not to be able to meet his monthly payements. He decided to sell some of the equipment from the shop, to pay for the remaing part. After he sold the equipment and he received his money he left for Egypt, for at least 4 weeks. There was no money to buy new equipment and without them the shop could not be runned.
He left for Egypt and I had no clue whether or not he would come back. He told me that he was fed u with the shop and with me, I was the nail in his cofin. In order to prevent a bankruptcy I stopped the shop and started working full time as an employee again. This allowed me to have a loan to pay for all the debts. As he returns after 4 weeks from Egypt, he promisses me that he shall work with me to pay for the heavy loan.
He searches for a job, but want to have financial matters seperated, he wants his own bank account on which his salary can be paid. From this sum he will pay me a fix amount every month. What can I do? What he wants, he will do it anyway. I only can hope that he will stick to his promis. He puts his money on his savings account.
As soon as he has sufficient money he leaves for Egypt and takes his money. A few months later, during an escalating fight, he starts hitting me and throws me out. Moments later he lets me in again and is very sorry. I tell him that this is the limit, that I had enough.
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Before we got married I told him that I would leave him, if he ever hit me or had affairs with other women. I had no proof of the other women, but there were plenty of signs that he frequently had another woman. But physical abuse, like it happened this time, was beyond all my limits. I could not leave the house, because renting another house and the loan would be a burden far to heavy for me. So I told him to leave. He wants to go to Egypt, so I buy him an one way ticket. Two days later he leaves. The house is still there, and that belongs to him as well and he has the right to have his share of that and he has the right to live in that house, until it is sold.
Three months later he returns from Egypt. I propse to sell the house, if he wants to he can return to Egypt afterwards. He agrees, but he wants too much money for the house. After a year it is still not sold. Finally he lowers his price and we find a buyer. He moves as soon as possible to an appartment near by. Given my financial position, I stay in the house until the contract is signed at the notaries offfice, 4 months later.
A ll costs that are coming, payement of the loan, final settlements of gas, water and electricity, cleaning of the house, real estate taxes……. He announced to me that I will not receive one euro from him. The notary hands us over a cheque with the remaining sum.
We still have a joint account, which we use to cash the cheque. His share is transfered directly into his saving account. I have a nice, well paid job and with this money we could have a good life together he says. Everything he earns could be saved on his saving account. This money could be usted later one, to invest in a business in Egypt.
When he has saved enough money he could leave and I could join him, so I can work there in his shop. Now, after 15 years, he owns property in Egypt and has a large sum of money on his savings account. But I did visit the place. This story shows broadly the financial side of my marriage.
It was his word against mine, so he chose psychic and emotional abuse. In the worst years of my relationship I kept a diary and wrote down everything. That is the very first time I frequented your website page and up to now? I amazed with the research you made to create this particular submit incredible. I am so amazed and really touched with your story. Because I have the same as you had.
But after we got married, he started going out not only once a week but maybe the absence of two to three days he will not go in the bar or with his friend and lving me alone. Everyday, I am doing everyth. This is not a family — not a place to raise your daughter. You are being abused and used by your husband. I would like to know, how did you ended? And if you have got divorced after? I know your post is from , but just wanted to ask if you could share with us what happened after?
Sie wiederholt sich fach in ganz Europa. Ich bin sehr schnell aufgewacht und habe den Betrug gemerkt und ihn bei der Polizei angezeigt. Vielleicht kennt ihr ihn ja. Khadija — trenne Dich von ihm — dann bleibt dir viel Leid erspart. Er ist kein Mensch — er ist ein Teufel. All the ladies who can help, please post all the users and abusers so we can spread the word! We are specifically targeting women who are traveling to North African countries, so the web site would reach all this women to warn them about this men.
Therefore it is a separate website, we all need to work together to fight this horrible men, who are using western women. I just had two friends scammed, by love … One she lost the house and the other one she lost all her savings and a good job, now she needs to get back on her feet. We can not let this men get away with this.
Authorities when reported, are not doing anything, so we have to do our best to prevent from more lifes getting destroyed. I was scammed by a Tunisian man who divorced me while still living with me in the UK, left for a holiday in July , married a Tunisian woman 11 days later. He managed to bring her back to the UK and despite me proving two cases against him in a Tunisian court, 1 for divorcing me illegally and the other for the money he extracted from me after the divorce under deceit. He was givn a 3 year suspended jail sentence. I am still fighting for my properties in Tunisia and this case is nearing an end.
They destroy you emotionally and financially and our government doesnt protect us. They have given him a girl in his neighborhood to marry. The first week he was on my side, second week he was in the middle now his mind is completely made up. How can someone you have loved for 5yrs do this to you. Apart from my daughter and the shame.
Thank God it happened so soon because it was doomed from day one. I tried my bets to make it work. He mother promised to disown him if he comes back to me. The worst is that i am black and Egyptian regard like women as bitches and somehow poor. He particular thinks he is not African. Hi, Your story is really tragic.
I am really shocked and I sincerely pray that God gives you the best of best in your future life. But do one thing. Kick that bastard out of your life. Seriously you should have done it before. Do get a divorce and start a new life. I am sure you will got a good life when your mind will be free from the tension. Hello,may I ask you: And just you buy the materials for that business from your account evry time!!!. Now I dont understand how long time you pay to his business from your account? And I want to know,what he payed for?
I felt shocked necause it is the same exact words my GF is telling me now. And we will see after what he will do. And i never have any intention to go to russia.. But she didn t want to show our marriage to her family in russia. She was looking to hide our marriage from russian embasay. I want to say that there also men in egypt serious and caring to do families. And some russian are scammers or not serious. If a man or woman not feel safe with the other side she or he finish the relation whatever how love they feel.
I dont accept a man abuse his woman or viceversa. The msg is that not all the same. And a msg to girls who come to egypt for sex. Dont be easy with the guys here. You who has the key to do what he wants wiz u. I had the same situation, loved one egyptian guy, proved my self on him gave evrything but he can never depend me over his family. Egyptina many f them is Liar 20 yrs old young doctor maybe you are for animal doctor hahahha make me laugh …some of egyptina they are liar and pretender.. First learn to read english. He said he is in his 20 s means between years.
You must have sad life. The middle east is a diificult place to live. Egypt is no exception so yes you do find so many fraudsters willing and waiting to take advantage of any naive or uninformed and lonely woman. However, it is universal. Right now Egypt is really an awful place to live so much unrest, violence and disharmony. Yet it is still beautiful and has such a rich history and there are many wonderful people there. My Egyptian love is the most amazing, beautiful, intelligent, loving, hardworking, honourable man I have ever met!
My wish would be that he would take all that I have, yet he truly believes it is his duty to take care of me in every way. He works so hard and would until his last breath. Except, sadly now he is seriously ill and I am looking at the possibility of having to live without him.
Still he asks nothing from me except my love, of which of course I gladly give with all that I am. To all these women, I hope that you all find a love that honours and respects you as the most precious gem. Someone who makes you be the best you, you can be. Listen to your gut, your intuition, it always tells you the truth.
You simply have to listen and then be forthright enough to take the right action. Love, light and peace to you all. Elsa love that name. You seem to have a good background and great education. Women are able to give life to your child… You can lift heavy weights. Does that make you equal? You talk about rights. After all, all couples have arguments: Especially if you do your job very well and become famous for your practice. Difference is supposed to bring positive experiments in life. Just think that you should never do to others what you do not want others to do to you.
Do you love her? Then you can avoid hitting her. And if, for a start, you began to trust yourself and make sure that the educational background you dislike in you disappears? Educational background is a base for your life. You can erase some parts of it. Yes you can do it. You just have to want to do it.
At least, with or without your Thai girlfriend, I wish you the best in your life. Just because your post makes sense and is proof that you know your strengths and your weaknesses. And believe me, I met a lot of people, very few of them are as wise as you are. I remember when I first met him in the hospital I was so dumb head-over heels captivated with his smile.. Coz if not, then it will really break my heart. Your comment really make me laugh… because is damn true.
Only when love finish, only at that moment you will can see the things clear as a glass. Im a filipina too and have an egyptian boyfriend. Are you married now to this egyptian guy since it was 3 years ago you posted this comment? I hope that you would reply.. Thanks and its a big help if you would answer me back. He is trying to scam me…here is the whole story…. I met him in a page where he and I was a page admin.. They post an announcement in their page that they are looking for new admins and luckily i am one who was selected and that is how things started..
At first we are just friends…. We talked in FB…. Tho he always say he likes me…i never take it seriously bec i think he is just playing around.. We consistently chat regardless of 6hours time difference…. Believing that he really loves me too…but then I did not buy him one.. I accepted him again… and we tried to save the relationship… after a week.. And after a week.. I did not do it because I am really convinced that he is a scammer… When I refuse to send my things to him,,, he said he is just testing me… he said if I really love him… I will do everything for him…if I answered him YES… he will eventually ask me not to do so..
He was thinking that I choose my gadget over him… doh!!! I beg him to stay,,,, and start all over again.. Call me stupid yet I love him….. Yet I believe I can move on… He will be always part of my past… but definitely not with my future…. I was really wondering if there is any guy who wants a real relationship?..
Wow…thank God I read all the cautions regarding these beloved beautiful Egyptian scammers.. Met mine 6 months ago, flat out told him NO with any money or marriage at that point. Tried and tried to talk me into buying him a car, laptop, phone,ect. Cut him off on any ideas for that. Even refused all marriage proposals.. Still chatting but I am starting to try to withdrawal from him..
I live in USA, know several Egyptians.. I love their ways and will end up an Egyptian man.. I certainly do believe there are some great ones, but we shall see I am engaged to the most wonderful Egyptian man in the world. A true Egyptian man would never treat his girl the way you ladies have sadly been treated.
Dating Men Vs. Egyptian Men
Egypt has a big population, and a big part of it lives in great poverty. My fiance is from a well established high class family, and has never let me pay a thing. He trusts me endlessly, and that is how every relationship should be. So not all Egyptian men are bad, in fact I think they are extremely charming and loving. Just be aware of the scammers, specially if they start asking you for money or items. Egyptian men have a huge ego, and they would think less of themselves if they asked their wife for money. Good luck finding love!
He adored me for years and we were finally married a year ago. He never ever used me for money — though we split pretty much everything as we were both students initially and then starting our careers. His family adored me from the start despite the fact i was 5 years older, western and Christian. Our wedding was even in a church in the US in the middle of Ramdan! His family was there and glowing from happiness. My family visitied Egypt subsequently and we were closer than ever. I was closer to him than anyone in his life had ever been and he was himself with me more than with anyone — even his family.
We met through common friends during one of my many trips to Egypt…. It was love at first sight — a fairy tale actually that i was grateful for every single day. We truly had a happy marriage and never in my life would i think he would cheat — he was brought up too well. In fact, I slapped him once and he never laid a hand on me. A month ago, I found out he had been cheating for months with random women from dating websites….
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I threw him out and am pursuing divorce as I write this. The shock and devastation is something i will never forget, nor do i know how to recover from this. I trusted him more than anything in the world, so i see how these women could end up in these situations. Thank god there are no kids or proeprty invovled….. These Egyptian men do have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder! Due to their culture, the regime of Mubarak and poverty!
I have never ever seen such selfishness before: This mix of personality traits make them seriously dangerous men! Salamu alaikum everyone , egyptian man will be the most romantic and nice man in this whole world until he get what he needs from you specially foreigners women , for your information in egypt culture its such a shame for the man or the girl to marry to a foreigner but you can find lots of egyptians men married to a foreigner just for purpose , and FYI its a shame and almost impossible for egyptian man to marry non virgin or older woman but they still marry non virgin and older foreigner women just bcoz money, Visa pass, comfy life too many things to say sobs … just an advise from old man dont marry an egyptian … anyway you will get shock when you know i am an egyptian and not proud.
Thank you for being honest. I once dated an egyptian guy. Did not work out fine. The relationship was a mess and I am not proud to be in it. Took me 7 months to get over him for I loved him with all my heart but he just did the opposite. Sir, thank u for being honest. I am egyptian man, You cannot say that all the egyptian men are so, i want say something that may be against the forign culture, the egyptians who work in hurghada and sharm and thirsty to open women, so they want to try,specially they much easy women there.
Sure you are not the same as those. Thanks you helped a lot. I was told that I had to go to Egypt to marry so he could come here. He asks for money too. He never buys me anything. And he said I will have to pay for my hotel stay.
I learn that from Islam the man is supposed to pay for everything. He never talks about his family. I get mixed messages about him. In my country its hard to find a man that loves a woman. I guess that is in every country.
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I hope women think before they mess up. My friend thinks hes just in a bad marriage and wants good sex with me. They arr all same. They want a pet at home not a wife. What they feel before marriage is passion not love thats why once u are married wonderful days are over bcoz he got what he wanted. I will never forgive my ex husband. I hate him and his little mind. I have been reading a lot of posts about relationships with egyptian men and honestly, im getting more and more confused.
My story goes this way,…I met my egyptian bf in UAE when i was on a holiday. He worked in the same company as my cousin did. We started out as friends and my cousin was ok with me to go dinner with him as she knows he is a good soul. Fast forward 8 months, we became a couple, constantly talking or messaging everyday. I dont live in the UAE but i have been back 2 times after that. Also, he has come to visit me in Southeast Asia and stayed for more than a week.
I know my bf loves me because i can see how happy he is when we are together and even my cousin told me she has not seen him as happy as this in the 6 years that she has worked with him. My dilemma now is…. His family does not know about me and i dont think he ever made the effort to made me known. His bestfriend in Cairo and another one in UAE Know about me as well as one Egyptian co-worker whom he is very close to.
He always tells me i am the best thing that has ever happened in his life. He comes from an upper middle class family in Cairo and he is the only son with a few sisters and his mom has been pressuing him to get married for the past 2 years or so. His mom means the world to him. I guess my question here is, will there ever be a chance or a possibility that someone from a well-to-do family in Cairo will marry a foreigner like me?
I have a university degree, i have a good job with a salary as much as his, i come from a middle class family BUT i am Asian southeast asian? Is there a chance for me here or should i move on? I faced nearly the same situation. I am from Germany but i am living in the UAE. My EX-Boyfriend is from egypt. We had a great relation and were really in love. He told me he wants to speak to his family about me. So he called his brother. His brother told him that their parents wont accept me.
He broke up with me. His family and religion is more important and he gave up on everything we had. Same thing with me. I tell you i lived in Egypt for almost 16 years. Move on , you will never have a good and happy life with Egyptian man. They will adore you now..