Girl im dating has become distant

So what exactly was said when you "told each other how you feel"? What did you say to her? Looks like something upset her I didnt say anything that could have been taken the wrong way. I just told her that i really like her and that i love spending time with her etc. I sent her a message on fb yesterday asking her to hang out which says she has seen it but she did not reply. Im so confused like ive thought about it over and over and there is nothing ive said or done that she could be mad at me for.

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What do i do now guys? Do i just cut contact and hope she comes around? Thats twice she has ignored me now im not willing to let there be a third time. Originally Posted by shtuffy. I originally first got with her 8 months ago but things only really got consistent with her about 4 months ago. When we had this talk basically we said we both really like each other and that we will see where it goes. She was a bit hesitant on the thought of a relationship because she thinks that will change things between us and she is happy with how things are right now.

So i dont think it could be because i havent made her my official gf yet.

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I cant wrap my head around why shes suddenly gone so cold and silent. I think im just going to straight up ask her whats going on this evening and hope i get an answer Any advice on how to ask? It could be another guy but i dont think thats the case. It wouldnt make sense to me how she was telling me all her feelings about me and vice versa, then to do a complete in the space of couple of days for a new guy. Im even more confused now.

I sent her a message asking whats up with her and she replied back that shes sorry shes been swamped with work but she thinks we "do need to talk" because shes so stressed out. I said thats fine does she want to meet for a coffee or just call and she ignored that question and asked if im going out this weekend. I told her what club im going to and she now wants to come there too.


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Then she started being all playful and funny with her messages again. Wtf is going on here?! She gives me the universal break up line "we need to talk" and is now acting completely normal and wanting to come clubbing with me?

Girl im dating gone distant out of nowhere. what do i do? all help appreciated

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Going back literally 2 weeks ago though, she was introducing me to her family and stuff and how thats a big step for her and so ive had some pretty mixed signals lol. I could tell she liked me alot, but after we chatted last night she brought up how she was in a serious relationship only last may and that it was a year long, past week shes realized she doesnt want to jump straight into something serious but to instead ease herself in and just go on nice meals without anything too serious yet. I said im happy to just date casually and see what happens further down the line but she thinks its been ruined already now.

Sad times, I proposed we just go on 2 more dates, have fun and see what happens, if it doesnt work out, we can just walk away from it and id be happy with that but that was early today and no response so ive just left it for now, its ironic though, haven't liked any girl ive dated all that much in 3 years then this girl comes along and im a mess haha. Perhaps hiding the truth but she seemed certain it was more about the fact that things were going too fast. Anyway, I left her with that text that we go on 2 more dates and just have fun and see what happens but she hasn't responded since.

I want to call her but I've followed your advice and not said anything. So I put on my it's cool face and we said our goodbyes.


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I am pretty upset about the whole thing and don't really know what to do with myself now because I saw us going somewhere and she genuinely felt like a really rare girl to me but I guess that's just how it goes sometimes. I like this a lot, what you said made a lot of sense and that batman paragraph actually made me laugh out loud so cheers for that. I'll concentrate on myself and just my own personal goals in life for a while, gym is actually on the cards tomorrow and I'll just try to enjoy my day.

There was just something about her but it's over now and hopefully everything does happen for a reason. Again though, your advice helped to make me feel not so alone in a time like this so a big thankyou. Time to move on with things, we only get one shot in this world, so no sense wasting it. If she really is just not ready as she said, then yes she may be back.

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Just respect her request and don't contact her in the hopes that if you stay in touch you will be on her mind thus she will want to be with you. I've been in the position where I've needed space from someone and they agreed but then were constantly in my face. That pushed me so far away from them that I never wanted to see them again.

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Things not working out the way you had hoped? Stand up on your soap box and let us know what's going on! Girl I'm dating has become distant, what do I do Hi there, new person here but I could really do with some advice.