But whatever the reason, a lot of men today feel that their dating pool is limited to shorter women only, and that taller women are completely turned off by shorter men. Just to name a few. Not a super famous guy. Taller women also tend to be more conscious of their own height, so she understands that she widens her dating pool if she includes shorter men. But what you can control is much more powerful:. The worst possible thing you can do when you meet a taller woman is bring her attention to your height difference right away…. And the only way they would notice is if you mention it.
Taller women have eyes. And because of this, many guys who are worried about their height try to make up for it in flashiness and bravado. And not in a good way. Let her discover them herself — that way she can truly appreciate the man you are right now. Just treat her like you would any normal woman! Taller women are exactly like every other type of women — and so they respond in exactly the same way. Take her to a venue where the height difference is barely noticeable.
But as a 5'10" woman I've dated a couple of guys who were a little shorter than me, because they asked me out, and they both complained about my height at some point. As a leg guy, I love tall girls. That being said, I might not approach you simply because literally every girl that I've approached that was more than an inch taller than me wouldn't give me the time of day. If a tall sexy girl came up to me, I'd be over the moon. I don't know if your guy is like that, but you may have to take the initiative on this one.
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He may assume that you, like many many women, prefer taller guys. You need to correct that assumption. If this isn't enough to convince you that it doesn't matter then I don't know what is! I've got nothing to contribute other than to say thanks for this and send you an internet fistbump - I'm between 5'10'' and 5'11'' and fret about this probably more than I ought to.
The behavior here is fretting about what men think of my height and anticipating them being threatened by it. OP's post encouraged me to chill the hell out about it, which I thanked her for. I'm about 6' and I love tall girls. Even the freakishly tall like 6'3" girls. Something about em, I just don't get it.
I don't approach girls taller then me.. I figure they just want tall guys so I don't bother. I was like this, sadly though as a guy who's barely 5,5 I had no choice but to just go for it. Got lucky a few times. I'm lucky right now also but this one is different because it came from friendship. As a relatively short guy 5'5" I have almost always dated taller girls. My ex-wife was 5'9", I've dated 6 footers, and present SO is 5'8". I prefer it when they wear really tall heels, too. Love me a tall woman. Whenever people ask me why I date someone so much taller I reply "so she can reach stuff from the top shelves for me.
I'm a girl and I'm 6'1. Ive had 5 counterparts in the past; one who was 4 inches taller than me, 2 have been my height and the other two were 5'9 amd 5'4 respectively and none of them ever commented on my height as a negative. Ive found ots entirely the way in which you carry yourself and dress yourself. Wearing something that you feel good in shows in the way you walk and act and if you keep an open mind and flirt a little with every person you meet not in a creepy way where you try and shag them just be chummy you'll gain good and maybe happy experiences with people you've never considered.
I'm 6'0, so this perhaps isn't a big problem for me, but I was with a girl who was 5'9 who liked heels and ended up the same height as me - if not taller, because I like leaning on stuff. That was perfectly okay with me. Warnings of not what to do? If he decides your height makes him uncomfortable and worth not pursuing you, then he's not a keeper. Hell, he might appreciate the view whenever he asks you to get something off the top shelf. Don't give short guys even more of a complex, please, it's most unkind.
Especially if you're mistreating yourself at the same time. Sorry - I really didn't mean to be, I was more admitting that I have had a bit of a shallow bitch complex about this in the past. I'm a lot more confident in myself than I used to be when I was younger, so I care a lot less what other people think - so I've decided not to let that mentality continue when it doesn't need to and is only going to harm my own relationships. It's refreshing not always being asked to stop what I'm doing to reach something off the top shelf.
I'm 5'6, Only ever had one girlfriend shorter then me. Dating taller girls is fine, I'm secure enough not to ever let it bother me. Only drawback is that they couldn't wear high heals around me lol. If you're secure enough that it doesn't bother you Shouldn't this be a non-issue then? Because they didn't want to seem so much taller then their boyfriend? I don't know, ask them, They are the ones who decided not to wear heals around me.
Why do you assume it was something I forced them to do? Well, I thought that because you said "they couldn't" instead of "they didn't want to. I've never dated a girl talked than me, mainly because I'm 6'4". Though my height has done nothing to add to my dating life. I don't have any anecdotes to support you, but your height isn't a problem.
At least not from my perspective. As long as you don't make it an issue, the vast majority of men won't make an issue of it either. I'm married to a girl who stands at 5'9. They key is to not give a fuck about her height. She loves wearing heels and is thrilled that I don't feel less of a man or whatever dudes feel when a girl is taller than them.
Plus, dat ass in heels man. If a dude is self-conscious about a height difference, something no one can control, he's got bigger issues than you need to worry about. It's one of my favorite subs! I only recently got over this myself, I think back and realize I would have dated someone shorter but didn't get asked, now I know why! My current boyfriend is a lot shorter than me, but he's the best! I'm 5'10"-5'11", he's about 5'4". After I let go of my notion that the guy has to be taller I'm 6'1 I found most guys don't care if you don't.
I think only a couple guys mentioned it at all. One was mildly negative about my overall size, but he was drunk. They are usually a little submissive or passive, which I like because I'm a little aggressive.
Kind of very aggressive. Anyone who cares about that sounds like some power-hungry douchebag who will grow up to beat their wife. I wouldn't go that far. Whether we like it or not different people find different things attractive and going around slamming people over their preferences just makes you look like an ass. I just don't honestly. Not that I would feel weird simply by dating a taller girl, but I've come to realize I prefer short girls.
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All the partners I've been with that I look back at and think I was most sexually attracted to have been short girls. My current girlfriend is about 5'0 and I love it. I wish I could. I'm close enough to 6' as makes no difference. Taller than most men and a good chunk of the women.
A tall woman in heels doesn't bother me. In fact, it's more leg to love, and I'd love to go up on that. I was walking to work this morning and one of those amazons was in front of me: All I could think was, ' daaaammmn That's a shame, because there probably aren't many. I have yet to meet a woman taller than me and that I have been on a date with. I'm 5' 11"; not really 'tall' but for most women then without footwear it doesn't count. I could care less what footwear she does wear and if she is taller.
A woman is NOT how tall she is. I would date a woman for many reasons, not just because she was taller than me. I wouldn't turn her down because of it.
I'm 6' so a girl taller than me is considered "very tall" by most and has some understandable insecurities. They usually won't date a guy that's not a lot taller than them. I'm 6'4" so it's nice dating someone of similar stature. Height almost always makes a woman more attractive to me. Am 6' and I love women in 5'9 ish sorta range. I do like height and long leggy women. Have dated women taller than me too. The only women I've met taller than me were cornfed, fat, country girls I wouldn't date anyways. Tall women are awesome. I'm an adult, I don't care if a woman is taller than me, as I'm pretty sure she's not going to decide she needs a taller man to defend her from raiders.
And who doesn't love boobs in their face? In general, women reject shorter men, not the other way around. If you make it clear that you are interested men will love it.
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I'm 5'11" so I'm not tall, but I'm tall enough that all the girls taller than me realize that they're in a very high percentile for height so its largely been a non-issue. That said my preference is for girls roughly my own height. I like looking straight across and seeing their face, not down. I also just like the larger body, not overweight, just the larger frame that comes with being tall. The tiny short girls are cute, but a girl my height just comes across as more assertive and strong in my eyes, and I like that a lot more. I went out with a girl who was about a foot taller than me, I'm 6'2.
Although I do have a thing for tall girls, just not quite as tall as I am. I have a thing for short girls too, just different buttons being pressed. I never dated a woman taller than me, but I totally would have. I'm 6', but I have seen women taller than me and I'd have no problems at all. I've never actually dated a girl taller than me but I did hit on a girl who turned out to be taller it's hard to tell when you're sitting.
I honestly don't care that much about a girl's height but I usually don't go for girls who are taller than me because I know I'm more likely to be rejected. Would date a girl of any height. As some have said, this is more so an issue on the girl's end. I would say mainly because height is not distributed the same way for everyone. If a girl is tall but a lot of it is in her torso and not her legs, and the short guy has a smaller torso but long legs, doggstyle won't really be an issue, etc.
My wife is 5'10; I'm 6'0.